‘The best make up a woman can wear is confidence’
Says Simon
Henry Bestselling author of “The
Little Black Dress”
We are all born supremely confident. As we grow both
physically and emotionally we allow that confidence to be chipped away at. So who is to blame for us feeling the way we
do?? Is it the bully that made our lives miserable at school? , is it the sibling or the over baring parent
who put us down at every available opportunity ? is it the images of stick thin models in
magazines and on TV or is it the monster that is the fashion industry as a
whole that doesn’t make any of those latest ‘things’ in our size??
Actually, it’s none of these things that saps our
confidence and makes us feel less than we are .
It’s us that’s at fault here. Who are these people that tell us that we’re
not tall, pretty, thin, clever, good enough???
They’re nobody, nothing! Unless of course we allow them to.
Who do we want to look pretty, sexy, thin for? Is it
for men? , is it for other women? I
think it’s actually for ourselves. Its ok to try and look a little better. The
feeling of looking nice gives us confidence, but when we think we don’t look
good enough, no matter how hard we try, we are sapping our own confidence.
Don’t do it!!
Ask any man to describe the perfect female. Very few
will say that they like stick thin women with no boobs and no bum. Men love
curves. Men love ample women with a little something to grab hold of. A woman
with perfectly smooth blemish free skin
with not an ounce of spare fat or skin anywhere would only intimidate most men.
Where as a Junoesque , curvy goddess would delight any red blooded male… I know, I am one ………. ok, a gay one ,
but hey, that gives me the perspective
from both sides. Trust me, you’re
gorgeous !
You can find the amazing Simon Henry at:
His
book is available for download and purchase from http://www.amazon.co.uk/Little-Black-Dress-Make-Perfect/dp/1861086237
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