Wednesday 19 June 2013

Why lack of sleep can make it harder to lose your Mummy Tummy!

Why lack of sleep can make it harder to lose your Mummy Tummy!

 Author: Jo Taylor

If you are struggling to lose weight post natally it could be worth considering whether sleep deprivation and stress is what is preventing you from losing that extra weight around your tummy?
Cortisol is a vital steroid hormone which regulates a wide range of processes throughout the body including your metabolism and your immune response. It also has a very important role in helping the body respond to stress.
During Pregnancy and the early Post Natal period, Cortisol is naturally elevated. In the Post Natal period it is believed that the role of elevated Cortisol and other stress hormones is to keep the mother alert and aware of any possible dangers to the infant just as she would have had to have done in our caveman days. The physical stress of labour and birthing, alongside the stresses of adjusting to early motherhood and poor sleeping patterns/lack of sleep means that Cortisol levels may remain high well into the Post Natal period making it difficult for mothers to lose weight post birth. This is because when Cortisol levels are high the body perceives itself to be under threat and so responds by laying down fat reserves.

Being an older mother is also a factor in holding fat as scarily by the mid to late 30s the body is preparing for menopause! And the ultimate paradox is that as women head towards menopause the body will automatically be reluctant to let go of fat around the middle as this is where Oestrogen is mainly manufactured. This happens because the body knows that Oestrogen will help protect our bones from Osteoporosis so the body understandably tries to hold onto the fat to hold onto the Oestrogen to prevent Osteoporosis which it obviously deems to be a greater threat than having a fat belly!

The ultimate blow comes in the fact that abdominal fat cells have four times as many receptors for Cortisol than anywhere else in your body so if youre continually too stressed, your abdominal fat cells will be calling out for Cortisol and encouraging the body to store fat around the abdominals!
Adrenaline & Cortisol are the two main stress hormones produced by the Adrenal glands. Totally useful when we need to get out of danger, not so great when our modern life and stress levels keep us chronically in a state of over-production. Both hormones circulating in the system increase appetite and then drive the stressed individual to consume guess what? More carbohydrate and fat!

Fat is stored around the middle simply because there, its closer to the liver where it can be quickly accessed to be converted back into energy if needed. Natural Cortisol levels that we need to wake us up and go about our business in the daytime can remain elevated by stress. They can also be elevated by a house too brightly lit in the evening time, and overstimulation via watching TV and staying up late playing with our phones and tablets. Many of us fall into this trap simply because late into the evenings is generally the only quiet time we get to themselves and so the only time when we can indulge ourselves with tv and facebook and twitter, not to mention chocolate and wine!
Excessive production of Cortisol leads to adrenal fatigue which presents itself as chronic fatigue syndrome, infections, musculoskeletal aches and pains and headaches and the list goes on.......

Obeying our natural rhythms of sleep and rest allows the adrenals to rest and human growth hormone (HGH) to be produced which is vital for optimal fat metabolism. Caffeine, sugar, tobacco and low blood sugar also create emergency situations within our systems and signal stress and they are all best avoided. If your body belives itself to be in a state of crisis it will respond accordingly.
Sleep also affects the levels of other hormones in your body. Two hormones that play an important role in stimulating and suppressing your appetite are leptin and ghrelin. Leptin is produced by your bodys fat cells and is responsible for suppressing hunger. Ghrelin is released by your stomach, and stimulates your appetite. Lack of sleep lowers the levels of leptin in your blood and heightens the levels of ghrelin, which results in an increase of appetite. The reverse is also true: getting enough sleep decreases hunger and will therefore help you lose weight.
You will know yourself that when you are tired you eat more and are more likely to crave sweet foods and carbohydrates. If you are well rested you are much more likely to be able to manage your appetite and make healthier choices. Exercise also has a big part to play here because it not only speeds up our metabolism and enables us to burn fat (if done at a high intensity) it also helps us to sleep better and to manage our stress levels.
So why not start treating yourself to as many early nights as possible and see if that is the difference that makes the difference for you when it come to weight loss?
Jo Taylor is a Fitness Instructor specialising in Post Natal Fitness. You can contact Jo via her website  http://jotaylorfitness.co.uk/  or at http://bridgenaturalhealth.co.uk/

Wednesday 5 June 2013

Midwifery of the Future


 

Midwifery of the Future

 

If you have fallen in love with playing your part as an agent of change

If you have courted that destiny to make yourself fit to serve

If you are married to the mission without compromise

If you have consummated that communion with others of kind

Then you will be pregnant with the future and in need of midwifery

 

If your willing readiness is wobbled by the occasional glimpse of

‘life will never be the same again’

If your excitement is thrilled to witness the new theatres of humanity

If the reality looms large that this is going to be on Its Terms not yours

Then know that birth is visiting you, nudging you into alignment

 

As some of the pixels of evolutions canvass become clear

A new oxygen liberates the creativity of all who breathe deep

Know you are lining the womb with the guarantee of your standards

And decorating the nursery with every brush stroke of devotion

 

When the stretch comes and you reach to meet its requirement

The midwife provides you with the assurance that you were born to this

She knows that the fruits of your labour will bring blessings beyond imagination

Her confidence and gentle authority makes you feel safe and that all is well

 

In the final hours as the enormity of evolution emerges from its plasma

The midwife covers you in the presence of connected stillness

The lone state is never to be felt again as You are born into your universal destiny

a homecoming and unification with all life and Love itself.

 

Nina Dauban                                                                                                Sep 2011

 

 

 

 

Monday 3 June 2013

If you want to change the world ..love a woman


If You Want to Change the World… Love a Woman
by LISA CITORE on AUGUST 8, 2008
When a fairly spiritual male friend of mine who had finally found and was deepening into committed relationship with his soul mate confided in me he was thinking of being single again, and in the next breath expressed his latest idea for raising consciousness worldwide, I wrote this poem.

If you want to change the world… love a woman-really love her.
Find the one who calls to your soul, who doesn’t make sense.
Throw away your check list and put your ear to her heart and listen.
Hear the names, the prayers, the songs of every living thing-
every winged one, every furry and scaled one,
every underground and underwater one, every green and flowering one,
every not yet born and dying one…
Hear their melancholy praises back to the One who gave them life.
If you haven’t heard your own name yet, you haven’t listened long enough.
If your eyes aren’t filled with tears, if you aren’t bowing at her feet,
you haven’t ever grieved having almost lost her.

If you want to change the world… love a woman-one woman
beyond yourself, beyond desire and reason,
beyond your male preferences for youth, beauty and variety
and all your superficial concepts of freedom.
We have given ourselves so many choices
we have forgotten that true liberation
comes from standing in the middle of the soul’s fire
and burning through our resistance to Love.
There is only one Goddess.
Look into Her eyes and see-really see
if she is the one to bring the axe to your head.
If not, walk away. Right now.
Don’t waste time “trying.”
Know that your decision has nothing to do with her
because ultimately it’s not with who,
but when we choose to surrender.

If you want to change the world… love a woman.
Love her for life-beyond your fear of death,
beyond your fear of being manipulated
by the Mother inside your head.
Don’t tell her you’re willing to die for her.
Say you’re willing to LIVE with her,
plant trees with her and watch them grow.
Be her hero by telling her how beautiful she is in her vulnerable majesty,
by helping her to remember every day that she IS Goddess
through your adoration and devotion.

If you want to change the world… love a woman
in all her faces, through all her seasons
and she will heal you of your schizophrenia-
your double-mindedness and half-heartedness
which keeps your Spirit and body separate-
which keeps you alone and always looking outside your Self
for something to make your life worth living.
There will always be another woman.
Soon the new shiny one will become the old dull one
and you’ll grow restless again, trading in women like cars,
trading in the Goddess for the latest object of your desire.
Man doesn’t need any more choices.
What man needs is Woman, the Way of the Feminine,
of Patience and Compassion, non-seeking, non-doing,
of breathing in one place and sinking deep intertwining roots
strong enough to hold the Earth together
while she shakes off the cement and steel from her skin.

If you want to change the world… love a woman, just one woman .
Love and protect her as if she is the last holy vessel.
Love her through her fear of abandonment
which she has been holding for all of humanity.
No, the wound is not hers to heal alone.
No, she is not weak in her codependence.

If you want to change the world… love a woman
all the way through
until she believes you,
until her instincts, her visions, her voice, her art, her passion,
her wildness have returned to her-
until she is a force of love more powerful
than all the political media demons who seek to devalue and destroy her.

If you want to change the world,
lay down your causes, your guns and protest signs.
Lay down your inner war, your righteous anger
and love a woman…
beyond all of your striving for greatness,
beyond your tenacious quest for enlightenment.
The holy grail stands before you
if you would only take her in your arms
and let go of searching for something beyond this intimacy.

What if peace is a dream which can only be re-membered
through the heart of Woman?
What if a man’s love for Woman, the Way of the Feminine
is the key to opening Her heart?

If you want to change the world…love a woman
to the depths of your shadow,
to the highest reaches of your Being,
back to the Garden where you first met her,
to the gateway of the rainbow realm
where you walk through together as Light as One,
to the point of no return,
to the ends and the beginning of a new Earth.


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